Sunday, August 18, 2013

Flower


There is a strange happiness when you see flowers blooming. If you have planted that flower then the happiness get multiplied (trust Me). Last semester, my work went in vain as the plants started decaying due to lack of light (I guess as I kept the flower pots on the windowsill and the sun rays never fell in my area).  Despite lots of care and the hard work the plants decayed.   

But this time the story is different. 

With the new room allocation, the new rays of hope flickers in me. With the right amount of the manure, water and the sunlight and also the additional dosage of attention, care and love the flowers bloomed finally.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

LOL (Laughing out Loud)

Laughter is the best medicine.

If laughter is really the best medicine, then I can say that I am healthiest person in the world.  I am pretty sure that I have taken infinite dose of it. And I should be free from all the sickness.  Because I laugh for every stupid funny reasons and I laugh again for laughing for those stupid reasons.

If I die, I am 100% sure that I will be remember and known for laughing really loud. As friends described, my laugh is scary enough to wake people from their sleep, make people fall from their chair, enough to get second weird glance from the bypassing people, really irritating when some are doing something serious. When I was in high school, my brother used to say that he could hear my laughter in his class and he used to scold me for that. Still, I don’t have any control over my laughter.

I am trying to control it and I have tough time controlling it and when friends see the way I am trying to hold it, they burst out laughing igniting my laughter once more. Among friends I am known as Creator of Volcanic Laughter, maybe I really am.

Laughter is the best medicine but it seems I have overdosed as it isn’t showing any effect now. All I do laugh hell and cough continuously. Look like I need to change my medicine to chase coughing, so I conclude laughter is not really the best medicine. But laugh while you still have teeth :D

"Humor is infectious. The sound of roaring laughter is far more contagious than any cough, sniffle, or sneeze. When laughter is shared, it binds people together and increases happiness and intimacy. Laughter also triggers healthy physical changes in the body. Humor and laughter strengthen your immune system, boost your energy, diminish pain, and protect you from the damaging effects of stress. Best of all, this priceless medicine is fun, free, and easy to use." retrieved from http://www.helpguide.org/life/humor_laughter_health.htm


 



Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Saying Sorry

“Mend the bond torn by pride.” The Witch of Brave

The hardest part for most of the people is saying sorry. Though they might have realized their mistakes and feels sorry, they somehow fail to say it. Here comes another factor ‘PRIDE’ which isn’t letting you to admit the mistakes, which holds you back from saying sorry. The simple five letter word ‘SORRY’ doesn’t come easily for many people at times whereby for some people it is frequently used word. Those people say sorry not because others are always right and they are always wrong but for them the value of them are higher than the pride they possessed.

A simple sorry can save you from hot arguments, heal you from the deep hurt, can make you forget and forgive the mistakes. So never be late to say sorry to whom you think you owe the one. I am going to say sorry to all whom I think I should have said earlier but couldn’t somehow.

God: I know you have been and are always there but I never got a chance acknowledge you. I am so sorry and I thank you at the same time.

Family: Ama and Apa, sorry for being irresponsible at one or other points of time. I am sorry if I haven’t lived up to your expectations. Sorry brother for arguing with you for those silly reasons. Sorry sister for being bossy and not understanding you at a time. I am sorry to you all and love you all a lot. I miss you all very much. I am sick and missing home, is it homesick? LOL

Friends: We live, chat, laugh, argue, support, fight, forgive and forget.  Living with you all has always been best part of my life. Sometimes, unknowingly we end up hurting each other’s feeling. So for those unknown times, I am sorry if I have hurt anyone’s feeling.

People Around: Till date there are many people I have encountered in my life. To those people, there might have been time where I owed you an apology for various known and unknown reasons but didn’t apologize because I couldn’t or I didn’t realize. Now I do, I am sorry if I have been ignorant, judgmental, too harsh, careless, stupid and many more.

Readers: Finally to you all if I have wasted your precious times. Sorry if my writing wasn’t worth your time.







Monday, August 5, 2013

Living or Enjoying Life?

We are so busy planning and preparing for future that we are forgetting to live a present. We worry endless for unknown times so intensely not even sure of whether we will be able to live that particular time we are anticipating now or not. We live a monotonous life like wake up at 6:00 am, breakfast at 7:00am, class from 8-12am then lunch then again class, dinner, surf net for a while, do homework (most probably copy) and study for a while and sleep. We areso used to it that we don’t notice that present is sliping from our hand.

Did I enjoy the moment I went through? I guess not, just look at me I can’t even remember what I had for dinner. Is it because curry wasn’t worth remembering? Big NO, I was just living not enjoying that moment. As if I am remote operated human who is a slave of the unknown and accustomed command like dinner time, go and dine in the mess and come back. And the cycle continues.

Yeah! I heard someone saying that to be successful in life, one must stay focus. So looks like everyone is trying to be successful as everyone seems focused or they are just trying to be focus like me. At times we lend up on an intermediate state where we can neither focus nor enjoy. We are one way or other tied with the numerous rope of life like responsibility, duty, commitment, fear, guilt and many more. Sometimes, we need to come out of cocoon of our life and enjoy the beauty of being carefree.

Did you ever do the crazy things you never expected you will do in your life but something you always wanted to experience at some point? Like shouting at the peak of your voice while riding a roller coaster and pinching hard your partner when you feel that you will fall out of it or laughing hell while playing break dance or getting nausea while swinging on dragonfly. Or maybe intentionally not taking an umbrella knowing that it will rain, completely get drenched in the rain and running fast to the destination and stopping with the eardrum piercing shout when thunder roars, or chanting “Om ah hung bazar guru padma se de hung” when lightning struck and next moment laughing so hard knowing how foolish we act. Or may be climb on the high water tank with the fear in mind and have tough time coming back as legs wouldn’t cooperate. And after getting back on the ground, getting cramp on the leg and making friends worry.  Or shouting and jeering equally with the Indian while watching a movie in an Indian theater.

Well I did all of those crazy, stupid and weird things but I don’t regret rather I have smile on my face. At all times of craziness, there were always friends to accompany. I feel at that time I was really living and enjoying the moment also was creating a memory for life time. Whenever I plan to something weird I quote a line “Zindagi Na Milenge Dobara.”  
Haha…now whenever I say “Zindagi Na Milenge Dobara” my friends start to panic J J J


Thursday, August 1, 2013

An Old Man

Saw the glitter of happiness in the eyes of my dear wife,
With the pride I said “Our son, our life.”
With little steps, you first walked.
And you hated when stalked.

You loved touching sky,
And you rode my shoulder with little sigh,
The little cheerful voice shouted “higher, higher”
And we were wingless flyer.

You made fuss over going school,
You looked cool sitting on a little stool,
The knowledge filled your mind,
With the passing time, you were determined.

Darkness engulfed our home,
With you mother gone,
I lived with the stone,
Till date, never felt so alone.

The respectable man of tittle,
With the beautiful wife you settled.
I had a huge and pure grin,
When I heard you have a twin.

Joy and hope filled my heart,
Unknown of the fact it will be torn apart.
You were disgusted to see my dirt,
Torn shirts and I was hurt.

At last, you asked me to leave your house,
And said I am man of chaos.
With no sense of direction,
I left having no option.

An eye wouldn't let the clear crystal fall,
The legs merely have strength to stand still,
The wrinkled hand barely can hold a walking stick,
Yet I shall never make my way to your home.


:'( The article will not let me sleep, I try to stand in his shoes. I can feel an enormous pain but I bet it's not even 5% of what that father is really going through.